A Cyber Magazine for Those Who Think

Vol 4  Issue 20


(An abridged version of this article was published in 'The Herald' on September 11, 2006 in the ?Soul Curry? column.)

The grand finale of the soccer World Cup: Zidane, the French captain, playing like a maestro, leading his team to victory, in the last match of his career. Suddenly something snapped; ?anger is momentary insanity,? said Horace long ago. And Zidane madly head-butted the lanky Italian defender Materazzi. What was about to be the crowning glory for an illustrious career turned into a disgraceful ignominy. ?Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame.,? cautioned Benjamin Franklin.

Undoubtedly a tragic tale, but isn?t it a replay of what we have all seen in real life? Or maybe even experienced? A disproportionate explosion over a trifle. And a career or an image lies in shambles - or at least in jeopardy.

The modern media with its vivid depiction of violence portrays anger as a heroic quality, as the quintessential psyche of the macho man. But is it really? Most people recognize that in real life anger is not a pleasant emotion, yet they savor the violent scenes in the movies. And then, strangely enough, they wonder why they themselves, in fits of anger, speak such words and do such deeds which break the hearts of their loved ones and which they themselves bitterly regret later. Anger breaks hearts and wrecks homes. When enslaved by anger, people violently attack, wound and kill others ? sometimes their loved ones. Violent heroism in the media thus breeds violent crime in society. Anger is also a known cause of a large variety of ailments ranging from high blood pressure to heart attacks. Anger can lead to all forms of conflicts ranging from petty quarrels to world wars.

Moreover depression, a rampant modern mental health challenge, originates in anger. When one is unable to vent out anger on the perceived cause of frustration, one vents it out on oneself by going into a self-pity and self-martyrdom zone, a mindset that engenders depression.

Thus anger destroys reputations, careers, families and lives. No wonder the Bhagavad Gita (16.21) calls anger one of ?the three gates to hell.?

What makes us angry? The power of anger is so awful, so supra-human that the ancient Greeks would attribute it to evil gods. They would say: those whom the gods wish to destroy, they first make angry. But can we pass the buck for our anger to some devilish powers? Or are we ourselves responsible, as Benjamin Disraeli said, ?A person?s fate is his own temper.?

The Bhagavad-gita (2.62) describes the psychological genesis of anger. When our desires, plans and expectations for control and enjoyment are thwarted, the resentment and frustration expresses itself through harsh words and / or violent actions. Thus it is we and our attachments that are to be blamed for our anger.

How can we deal with anger? Thomas Jefferson suggests, ?When angry, count ten before you speak; if very angry, count hundred.?

Delaying action is certainly useful in avoiding angry outbursts, but, to uproot anger from our psyche, we need a spiritual transmutation of our emotions. We are souls, spiritual and eternal children of God. Our heart finds fulfillment only when we make God our first love in life. This divine love gives us a tremendous internal security as we know that no material upheaval or upstart can threaten our inner wealth of devotion. And devotion empowers us even before we attain that tranquil state. Forewarned is forearmed. Often we indulge in anger because we do not recognize the danger of anger. The d that enables us to see the danger of anger is the d for devotion. When we awaken our dormant spiritual devotion by chanting the holy names of God, especially the Hare Krishna maha-mantra, that devotion makes us strong at heart and wise at the head. We develop the discrimination to pre-empt provocative situations, and the soft-heartedness to see the other person?s viewpoint and the assertiveness to present our viewpoint without becoming aggressive. The Vedic scriptures describe the story of an angry violent cruel sadistic hunter Mrigari who would half-kill animals and enjoy seeing them suffering till death. But when he was enlightened by the great sage Narada Muni and empowered by chanting of the names of Rama, he became so self-controlled that he carefully avoided stepping even on an ant. Why should we not avail of similar empowerment?

The Spiritual Scientist

Investigating Reality from the Higher Dimensional Perspective of Vedic Wisdom
Published by ISKCON Youth Forum (IYF), Pune 
Dedicated to 
His Divine Grace A C Bhaktivedanta Swami Srila Prabhupada,
The Greatest Spiritual Scientist of the Modern Times
Founder-Acharya: International Society for Krishna Consciousness (ISKCON)
Magazine Committee:
Radheshyam Das (M Tech IIT, Mumbai), Director, IYF
Chaitanya Charan Das (BE E&TC), Editor, The Spiritual Scientist